Steven underestimated me a real woman, because he is still a little boy, not a mature man.

Someone sent this to me,because they know I am a real woman.

What I Need In a Man

this is deep....but if most women find these qualities in a mate....WOW!

In a brief conversation, a man asked a woman he was pursuing the question:
“What kind of man are you looking for?”

She sat quietly for a moment before looking him in the eye & asking, “Do you really want to know?”

Reluctantly, he said, “yes.”

She began to expound, “As a woman in this day & age, I am in a position to ask a man what, can you do for me that I can't do for myself? I pay my own bills. I take care of my household without the help of any man... or woman for that matter. I am in the position to ask, what can you bring to the table?”

The man looked at her. Clearly he thought that she was referring to money.

She quickly corrected his thought & stated, “I am not referring to money. I need something more.
I need a man who is striving for excellence in every aspect of life.”

He sat back in his chair, folded his arms, & asked her to explain.

She said, “I need someone who is striving for excellence mentally because I need conversation & mental stimulation. I don't need a simple-minded man. I need someone who is striving for excellence spiritually because I don't need to be unequally yoked...believers mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for disaster.
I need a man who is striving for excellence financially because I don't need a financial burden. I need someone who is sensitive enough to understand what I go through as a woman, but strong enough to keep me grounded.
I need someone who has integrity in dealing with relationships. Lies and game-playing are not my idea of a strong man. I need a man who is family-oriented. One who can be the leader, priest and provider to the lives entrusted to him by God. I need someone whom I can respect. In order to be submissive, I must respect him.
I cannot be submissive to a man who isn't taking care of his business. I have no problem being submissive...he just has to be worthy.”
“And by the way, I am not looking for him...He will find me. He will recognize himself in me. He may not be able to explain the connection, but he will always be drawn to me. God made woman to be a help-mate for man. I can't help a man if he can't help himself.”

When she finished her spill, she looked at him.

He sat there with a puzzled look on his face. He said, “You are asking a lot.”

She replied, "I'm worth a lot".

God Bless all who have read my blog. I hope you never meet someone like Steven John Krantz.

Update

Recently, I entered Steve's Internet user name Stratsteve. I googled the name, and his city. I saw an ad with someone using the same userid, living in the same city of Laguna Niguel, CA, and the same age as Steve,which is 52 years. Steve was 52 on June 18, 2009. I clicked on the cache, which gave a picture of the website for October 5, 2009. This particular ad was for a bi-man looking for a couple (two gay guys), or a couple with a woman and a man, where the guy is bi-sexual. The profile was also advertising for transsexuals, transvestites, and transgendered individuals. Is it possible there is another man, using the same ID and living in the same town? Two years ago I met Steve on a dating website, where is profile was Stratsteve,Laguna Niguel, CA and his age was 50 years.

Makes you want to go....UMMMMMMMM....?

Reflections

When I met Steve, he was "perfect" and quite a gentleman. He had this unselfish outpouring of feelings. He said that he would love me forever, and beyond. With much emotion, he expressed that he should have met me 30 years ago had children with me, because our family would have made him happy. These are empowering thoughts that a man admits to a woman. Then again, Steve turned out to be a liar and manipulative individual.

The Steve that I later came to know (after discovering his other life) is a bad man. I am thankful that I do have wonderful men (friends and family) in my life who love and care about me. My men friends probably respect and care about more than what Kimberly is getting emotionally from her husband, Steve. Can she now completely trust him?

Wife, (Click Here) Sister, Girlfriends, His employer, Orange County Superior Court: Steven's Chain of Fools

We were all links in Steven John Krantz's "Chain of Fools". He is quite the manipulator. How many more affairs and lies will Kimberly Krantz tolerate before she finally has had enough. I'm sure if she checked his cell phone bill, she would find that he has been calling his Trailer Park girlfriend Lori Reattoire. She did visit California maybe last February. Kimberly is married to a man who has no balls and no scruples. How many of you women would have stayed with a man who had so many affairs?

I gave my heart but, I got hooked up with a BAD...BAD.. Man..Steven John Krantz

Hello Laurie, I see that you read my blog. Apparently you are always getting Steve (your brother) out of trouble and know most of his secrets and probably his various affairs. You seemed to know about Steve and his relationship with Lori Reatoire, before he met me. What a sister-in-law. If I were Kim, I would never trust you. This situation was not between you and me, or Lori Reattoire and me, or Kim and me. The situation was strictly Steve and I. Going through AIDS?HIVS screening for six months would be a horrible experience to a normal woman, after learning that the man she loves has profiles on several gay men's sites. Steve has no balls to clean up his misdeeds. He only knows how to manipulate and then hide behind those who clean up his evil activity. When I used Steve's old email, there were many hookers, who were looking for him. There was a woman named Tammy, who did not live in the area, but she wanted to see Steve on her next business trip. After reading my blog, she wasn't sure she wanted to see him. She had no problem believing what I had gone through with him. I'm glad I have moved on to a better life without such a deceitful man.
If anything comes out of this, I hope Kimberly stays in this marriage and gets everything she deserves.

Preface

To my friends,family,and others:
Thank you for giving me strength during this horrible experience. Your love and understanding will always be appreciated. I had some very dark moments. It was very demanding emotionally learning that Steven John Krantz,the man I loved, had very explicit profiles on several men's gay web sites. On one site he had a regular photograph and a picture of his penis , hanging out of his pants.Also he was married to Kimberly Krantz,who has a high profile manager's position with Boeing. I guess she doesn't care about his affairs as long has she is taken care of financially. His girlfriend, Lori Reattoire, of Opal, VA, had a picture of them together with no clothes, on her MySpace page.
I discovered later that she is just "one of many" women he has had ongoing affairs. Considering he was married, he had no reservations about his indiscretions. People forget that once you have been on the Internet, a footprint is left. There is software to find you.

I exposed raw emotions,which at times frightened me. I discovered who were real friends and who cared about me. I learned how someone who once cared for me became an enemy because he has not resolved the demons within himself. All he had to do was just talk to me about what was really going on within him. I was a woman who totally loved him and wanted to see him happy. I have no regrets about having him in my life.The man I knew was incredible and the most interesting I have ever met. Maybe one day Steven John Krantz will have redemption from a soul that is empty.

To Steven John Krantz:
Do you participate in sexual fantasy roles and you do not care how you fulfill them? Are you and Lori Reattoire (Opal or Manassas, VA)involved with swingers. Are you involved with hookers, who contacted you via the Internet? I have talked with professionals who have analyzed human behavior for years. They have warned me about sociopaths,like you and how your kind cannot be trusted. You took my Trust and Loyalty,and treated them like garbage. You did not talk to me face to face so that I could express my feelings. Yes,I am angry with you. I have the right to feel that way. It took a while for me to feel that fire. You are a selfish and manipulative person who only wants self-gratification. Your sister intervenes so that you don't have to be personally accountable for your actions. She does not let you be a mature grownup man. Basically,you are a "bad" man.

To Lori Reattoire,(Steve's girlfriend/mistress of 7 years):
It's about time that you find a man of your own. You are just one of many. Steve has you trained to obey and to do his fetching ,just like the two dogs he owns (Sport and George). Again this is the way a sociopath like Steve manipulates people. He gets them to do his dirty work and evil deeds. He does not have the balls to confront me personally but has used you or involved his busy body sister Laurie Krantz to contact me with nasty remarks.


JP
Long Beach, CA
July 2008

Professional Review

I noticed that someone from Chan and Associates Orange County, CA was reading my blog about Steven John Krantz. If you want to know more email me. I did not make this up. Steve is a bad man! His employer apparently gives the appearance that they do not care about his morals or ethics. However, I also noticed a readers from a few hospitals reading this blog as part of their researching his employer.

Steve, his longtime girlfriend, Lori Reattoire, Opal, VA, and his attorney, Kelly Johnson, Newport Beach, CA appear to all be slimy and unethical people. With the creepy relationship he has with his adoptive sister, Laurie, it makes one wonder, who is really the father of her little girl. They all were involved in this nightmare and I had to deal with each one.

It seems so long ago that a wonderful man named Steve, held me tightly in his arms on a windy September day and said he never wanted to let me go.